Hie facenotee story
Please keep me anonymous. I’ve been dating a 30 year old lady for about six months. I’m a divorcee and I have 2 children. My girlfriend has a son. I thought at her age and the fact that she has a kid would make her want a relationship with a direction. She still likes going out with friends all the time drinking until the groove closes. She’s more concerned about the festivals in her area than her son’s school performance. I told her she’s too old to be behaving like a first year student and she told me I’m too uptight and serious. She said I must loosen up. The other day I was telling her about my plans to buy a house cause now I’m renting. My old house is now owned by my ex wife. She fell asleep during the conversation. If I want her attention I must talk about Musa Khawula gossip and her brain lights up. She behaves like a drop out. She’s a school clerk with a college qualification. Aren’t women supposed to be more mature than us?
Hie Smith
Hi Smith, please keep me anonymous.
Please keep me anonymous. I have been married for 8 years. Since we had a child my wife has withdrawn from our relationship. I used to think it was postpartum stress but it seems like she has just decided to withdraw. I always have to beg her to give me 🍑. Even when we do it I can see that she’s just doing it for the sake of doing it. Sometimes she’d tell me to finish quickly because she wanna sleep. We can go for two month without doing it. I love my wife so much and this situation is stressing me. I do my best as a husband and father. I provide for my family financially. I help in the house as well. I do not want to leave or cheat, but I’m starving. Please advise a brother out.
I have been married for 14 years and we have three children. From the outside people think we have a normal family, but the truth is I have been living with a heavy secret for a very long time. When I got married, I did it mostly because all my friends were getting married and I didn’t want to be left behind. I convinced myself that marriage would make me happy too. My husband is a good man in many ways, but the truth is he has never satisfied me in our int!mate life, and he doesn’t even know it.
For years I kept quiet and stayed unhappy. Along the way I started noticing that some of my friends husbands were always flirting with me. At first I ignored it, but eventually I allowed things to go further than they should have. One mistake turned into many. Over the years I ended up secretly sl£eping with my friends husbands. I would see their wives, smile with them, and act like nothing was happening while carrying this secret.
The truth that hurts me the most is that my three children don’t all have the same father. Some of them are from those affairs, and one is from a man I got involved with at work. I also believe my husband may not be able to have children, which makes the situation even more complicated.
I have been living this double life for years and it is eating me inside. One of the men I was involved with now says he wants to leave his wife, who is my friend, so that he can be with me. The truth is he satisfies me in ways my husband never has, but I know deep down that I can’t destroy my friend’s life like that.
Now I feel trapped by my own choices. I’m tired of lying. I’m tired of pretending. Every time I see my husband and my friends, I feel the guilt growing heavier. I honestly don’t know how to fix the mess I created. Smith, I’m asking for advice because I feel lost and ashamed. I want to stop living this life of secrets, but I don’t know where to begin.
Hi Smith
Please keep me anonymous.
I’m a 16 year old boy staying with my grandparents, my mom and her 4 siblings and my cousins. I’m the youngest in the house. My problem is when there is a smell from fªrting everyone blames me. They make me go stand outside until the smell is gone. 90% of the time I’m not responsible for the smell, it’s the adults. Just last night my grandmother released a missile and she blamed me. I was sitting next to her. They all started shouting and accusing me of eating too much beans and peanuts. I just can’t wait to complete my matric and leave them with their fªrts. I’m tired of being framed.
Hi Smith, please keep me anonymous.
I’m 25F, married to my 35M husband. He paid lobola for me, and we’ve been together for some time.
To be honest, our relationship has had infidelity on both sides over the years, and I admit I’ve cheated multiple times. Last week, he tracked my phone and discovered I was at another man’s place. He was furious and moved out for two days, but then came back saying he wants to work on fixing our marriage.
The truth is, I’ve emotionally checked out completely. I feel staying will only lead to more pain and unhappiness for both of us. In the past, when my cheating came to light, things escalated to the point where I genuinely feared for my safety and became scared of becoming another statistic in gender-based violence cases.
I want to leave, but I’m worried it will completely break him. I’m also afraid that my next relationship might not work out either. Financially, I’m independent now (though he supported me a lot earlier in our marriage).
What confuses me most is why he keeps forgiving me…even when I don’t apologize and keeps coming back wanting to fix things.
I just feel this marriage has reached its end for me. Any advice or similar experiences would be appreciated. Thank you.
Hi Smith
Hie Smith
Anonymous please. Three years ago I found out that my child is not my child. I had two kids before this one. I took care of this one more than the first two. Actually, I stopped taking care of the first two because I loved this one more. Maybe it’s because I was staying with her mom and I was there every step of the pregnancy. I was there when she was born. I heard her first cry. We named her after my mom. I paid damages for her, something I didn’t do for the first two kids. Three years ago we were coming from a party and she passed out in my car after drinking Savanna. She passed out while watching things on TikTok. I took her phone and went straight to WhatsApp. There’s a number she was chatting with regularly but it wasn’t saved. She sent the guy pictures of the child almost every week. Whenever I bought the child something new she would take pictures and send to the guy. In one of the texts the guy asked ‘when I come back you gonna dump that bhari neh?’ and she replied with a laughing sticker. To cut the story short, I confronted her when she sobered up and she confessed. I still believed the child was mine. We did paternity tests and they came back negative. I felt my soul departing from my body that day. That’s how our relationship ended. It’s been three years but that pain is still deep. I had to do paternity tests for the children I abandoned as well. Those ones are mine and I’m trying my best to fix my relationship with them. Will I ever trust that gender again? Hell no. I rather be gay.
Please hide me. I’m a healthy man aged 30. Why is it that when I do tlof tlof at home, it never goes beyond 5 minutes and after that I lose interest, but when I do it outside I can go forever over and over again? I just wanna know if other guys go through the same. I tried to use ‘long mashaya’ herb at home but it’s not helping. I love my wife and wanna satisfy her but nature just happens. And we make shorts kids. I’m sure if it has anything to do with short rounds.
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