A helpmate versus a hindrance, an asset versus a liability.

There’s a huge difference between someone who is “wifeable” and someone who is just “fvckable.” A helpmate versus a hindrance, an asset versus a liability Understanding the difference between a Queen and a concubine is crucial. When you love your life mate, you value and honor them like a wise and healthy family member a divine family member. A good wife wants both partners to win because their connection is a brand. She cares for you as she cares for herself.

An intelligent and intuitive woman knows that divine masculinity is hard to find, while the population of “fuckboys” is higher than a Dubai skyscraper. She doesn’t need a title for validation or material provisions to maintain her lifestyle or image. She enjoys your presence, protection, and understanding, loving your soul 80% of the time. The other 20% of the time, she might think about smothering you in your sleep… just kidding! But she’d miss you too much and struggle to find someone who understands her inner crazy.

Some beautiful women are beautiful disasters or pretty trauma bombs gorgeous on the outside but chaotic on the inside. If you aren’t strong-minded and lack discernment, your infatuation and lust will lead to a lot of stress and drama. Dysfunction, toxicity, and mental illness don’t have a specific look and can come in attractive packages.

Just like all trophies, trophy wives fade. They lack the substance needed to sustain a relationship and eventually become liabilities as a man evolves or his lust fades. Physical attraction can be a headache if the soul inside the attractive vessel is ugly, self-centered, and selfish.

Some people should be loved from a distance, especially if they irritate your soul and drain your spirit. For every beautiful woman, there’s someone sick of her issues. Many beautiful women might hide significant baggage or unresolved trauma. Some come with debt, crazy exes, difficult kids, dysfunctional relatives, unhealed emotional wounds, and messy friends. Some women are entitled and selfish, but some are just too crazy for me. Remember, a true partnership is about finding someone who enhances your life and shares your vision for the future.